haha it seems like he likes you but isn’t sure about it so he’s being cautious. I’d just continue to play coy and shy until he does something or try to bring up something you might have in common/something exciting coming up! finding an appropriate excuse to talk to him is a good way to break the ice. :) I know guys are confusing but they all come around eventually! good luck! xo
i think you should just tell him because the worst thing that will happen is it won’t work out, but if you’re both making the effort to see one another (which it seems like you are) then I’d at least try to make something happen. he wouldn’t visit you if he wasn’t into you :)
just talk to him and see if you guys have a lot in common. try to find some solid ground & go from there because then it won’t be too awkward and things will naturally flow if you two are good for each other. if not, on to the next one. :)
some examples would just be to bring up halloween, or sports, or big events coming up in your life (homecoming, etc.).
hope this helps! let me know if you need anything else :)
hi! i would obviously be very cautious of the situation and try to play it off as a ‘hi we don’t even know each other yet’ and see if he acts interested enough to get to know you. i wouldn’t call him out on it in case he really does mean it, but try to see if he’s serious first. good luck! xo
he seems like he’s at least interested! i’d go up to him and say hi and ask him how his summer was if you run into him at any point :) odds seem to be in your favor for now! take advantage and enjoy it :)
Ok I know how hard it can be to tell who your real friends are. It sounds like you friend has changed a lot since moving to her new school. She may just be trying to for in there and that has changed her attitude. Its hard to keep someone as a best friend when you rarely see them. I learned that in college. I would still keep her as a friend, however I dont think you should keep her as a best friend. But do talk to her and tell her how you feel, she may not realize how she is acting.
Xo Becky #2
I had something very similar happen to me in high school but it involved a picture and a pissed off ex. It can be hard. But keep your head high babe it’ll only last a few weeks at most. If people judge you for it then they aren’t your true friends. A true friend will walk beside you through this. It’ll blow over as soon as some new drama come out. Best of luck :)
Xo Becky #2
Okay, so I can only offer my opinion and you don’t have to listen. I think you did the right thing by threatening to tell your parents. If this continues, you may want to tell them. The people who have the video sound a bit immature because they are holding a video against you. Not everyone hates you for this, it just feels like it. You may be starting to see your real friends from this cause they are the ones who are still with you through all of it. Plus, do you really wanna be friends with someone who is holding a video against you? It was a mistake. which everyone is entitled to. We are only human, ya know. Try to keep your chin up and smile through this. IT will all calm down once something else happens.
Hope this helps a bit! Love you(:
Dear anon, Of course they date outside of their own grades! Girls usually date up because the boys are more mature, its totally normal. When I was a freshman, I basically dated a senior! That’s a three year difference and it doesn’t really matter :) Good luck with him xoxo -Becky